I don't drink, and that apparently ends half the first dates in my city. My patience ran out somewhere between ghost number ten and ghost number fifteen. All I wanted was a conversation that survived the move from chat to actual plans. My cousin met her husband on this military dating site and I'd recommend it to anyone in the same boat. The nicest part is how little effort the whole thing takes now. I'd almost forgotten what it felt like to look forward to Fridays.